When “Holy Experiences” Start to Replace the Holy Spirit
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When “Holy Experiences” Start to Replace the Holy Spirit

Every so often within a Catholic group, a new tone begins to creep in — not loudly, not maliciously, but softly, like a shift in the wind. Someone begins sharing “holy experiences,” dramatic moments of the Spirit supposedly moving at retreats, conferences, or in prayer. At first it sounds harmless. Sometimes it even sounds inspiring.

But then something begins to feel off.

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When Charity Hurts: CO-Parenting, Criticism, and the Quiet Cross We Carry
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When Charity Hurts: CO-Parenting, Criticism, and the Quiet Cross We Carry

There are moments in co-parenting that don’t just sting — they cut deep. Moments where you’re doing your best, holding the house together, protecting routines, planning time for your child, and then everything shatters in a single sentence:

“Why is he acting this way? I don’t do that so it must be You”

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When Your Child Is Embarrassed by Faith: A Parenting Moment That Stings
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When Your Child Is Embarrassed by Faith: A Parenting Moment That Stings

After sitting with the feeling for a minute, I realized this was actually an opportunity. Not to lecture. Not to shame him. But to teach him something he’ll need for the rest of his life: how to handle embarrassment, respect others, and understand faith without fear.

So tonight, after religious ed, I plan to talk with him gently.

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The Devil Targets the Family First: Lessons From the Saints, My Own Story, and the Crisis of Confusion Today
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The Devil Targets the Family First: Lessons From the Saints, My Own Story, and the Crisis of Confusion Today

We are living in a time where the family is not merely neglected—it is under direct assault.
And if you look closely, the same three weapons show up again and again:
violence, nudity/shame, and lies.

This is not abstract.
It played out in my own family story.
And the saints warned us it would.

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